…WhAt hUrTs mOsT…=[
Tuesday, August 14th, 2007What hurts…
1. letting go of a person you’ve just learned to love
2. reminiscing the good times you shared together
3. shielding your heart to love somebody<been there done that>
4. trying to hide what you really feel
5. trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your
eyes
6. loving a person too much<and never have it returned>
7. giving up someone you never thought of giving
up
8. having the right love at the wrong time
9. taking the risk to fall in love again
10. hiding your relationship from someone else
11. controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
12. Thinking of him every waking and sleeping moment
13. knowing all the while that he never even thinks a single
thought of you…
14. letting go, because everytime you see the person, you only
fall deeper
15. holding back only to find out when it’s too late, you both
felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much
that you didn’t let the
feelings out
16. falling in love with someone you didn’t mean to fall in love with
17. finding the perfect guy with only one problem, he doesn’t
love you<ouchness>
18. helping the one you love "make ligaw" to your friend
19. seeing the one you love crying for someone else
20. the waiting also hurts like hell
21. Having to hear "… I’ve met someone"
22. Agreeing to his wish to ‘just be friends’.
23 Giving his freedom back because ‘he’d be happier with her’
24. Asking you to forget everything that happened and be normal
friends again.
25. hearing that you’re
treated as a little sister
26. sharing his future plans for the girl with you
27. you stopped being friends because his girlfriend asked him to.
28. being denied in front of people
29. telling you lies where he’d been when actually he was with
a ‘new friend’ or an ‘old flame’
30. he told you he’d be leaving you to return to his ex
31. breaking someone’s heart<ANG HIRAP!!!>
32. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy that
is, holding on to a person who can
33. not guarantee you his commitment unless he fix
himself…then, you are left hanging for the
34. moment…then he says, time will tell, but you still
decided
to hope in him and trust him…
35. PRETENDING you’re OK when inside you’re dying
36 PRETENDING to be strong…. and RECOGNIZING your weakness
37. Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you
cn never have…
38. Being with someone you can’t actually love…
39. Pretending you don’t love a person whom you actually love…
40. Being in love…
41. letting go even if you really don’t want to…
42. having no right to say you are hurting because it was your
decision
43. Seeing the person you love hurt because of you…
and not
being able to help that person…
44. having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love
and finding out afterwards that things
45. will never be the same again when he doesn’t treat you with
the same closeness as before
46. having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely
destroying the wall that you have set
47. for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
48. admitting that you love someone despite his imperfections
49. finding out that the more you try to hate him, the more you
end up loving him, perhaps even more than before
50. Realizing how stupid your mistakes was that led to your break-up.
51. the thought that this guy, used to really love you and you
loved him as well but you didn’t give enough and he gave up on you
1. letting go of a person you’ve just learned to love
2. reminiscing the good times you shared together
3. shielding your heart to love somebody<been there done that>
4. trying to hide what you really feel
5. trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your
eyes
6. loving a person too much<and never have it returned>
7. giving up someone you never thought of giving
up
8. having the right love at the wrong time
9. taking the risk to fall in love again
10. hiding your relationship from someone else
11. controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
12. Thinking of him every waking and sleeping moment
13. knowing all the while that he never even thinks a single
thought of you…
14. letting go, because everytime you see the person, you only
fall deeper
15. holding back only to find out when it’s too late, you both
felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much
that you didn’t let the
feelings out
16. falling in love with someone you didn’t mean to fall in love with
17. finding the perfect guy with only one problem, he doesn’t
love you<ouchness>
18. helping the one you love "make ligaw" to your friend
19. seeing the one you love crying for someone else
20. the waiting also hurts like hell
21. Having to hear "… I’ve met someone"
22. Agreeing to his wish to ‘just be friends’.
23 Giving his freedom back because ‘he’d be happier with her’
24. Asking you to forget everything that happened and be normal
friends again.
25. hearing that you’re
treated as a little sister
26. sharing his future plans for the girl with you
27. you stopped being friends because his girlfriend asked him to.
28. being denied in front of people
29. telling you lies where he’d been when actually he was with
a ‘new friend’ or an ‘old flame’
30. he told you he’d be leaving you to return to his ex
31. breaking someone’s heart<ANG HIRAP!!!>
32. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy that
is, holding on to a person who can
33. not guarantee you his commitment unless he fix
himself…then, you are left hanging for the
34. moment…then he says, time will tell, but you still
decided
to hope in him and trust him…
35. PRETENDING you’re OK when inside you’re dying
36 PRETENDING to be strong…. and RECOGNIZING your weakness
37. Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you
cn never have…
38. Being with someone you can’t actually love…
39. Pretending you don’t love a person whom you actually love…
40. Being in love…
41. letting go even if you really don’t want to…
42. having no right to say you are hurting because it was your
decision
43. Seeing the person you love hurt because of you…
and not
being able to help that person…
44. having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love
and finding out afterwards that things
45. will never be the same again when he doesn’t treat you with
the same closeness as before
46. having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely
destroying the wall that you have set
47. for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
48. admitting that you love someone despite his imperfections
49. finding out that the more you try to hate him, the more you
end up loving him, perhaps even more than before
50. Realizing how stupid your mistakes was that led to your break-up.
51. the thought that this guy, used to really love you and you
loved him as well but you didn’t give enough and he gave up on you
<reminds me of someone>
52. Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else…
53. Making a promise and realizing that when the time has come
for that promise to be delivered, the commitment is no longer there.
54. The hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
55. After you’ve been hurt, learning to forgive, learning to
trust and love again.
52. Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else…
53. Making a promise and realizing that when the time has come
for that promise to be delivered, the commitment is no longer there.
54. The hardest thing about love - believing it exists.
55. After you’ve been hurt, learning to forgive, learning to
trust and love again.
BUT THE HARDEST THING REALLY IS
LEARNING TO LOVE
YOURSELF. WE ALWAYS FORGET TO DO
THIS ALWAYS. -
The hardest part of love isn’t loving someone,
but having the courage to let them love you back.
‘cHriStiNe’
_Li’L biAtCH18_
